Knowing how someone truly feels about you
There are times when we need to know how another person truly feels. By knowing saves a lot of time, disappointment, effort and sometimes money.
There are times when we need to know how another person truly feels. By knowing saves a lot of time, disappointment, effort and sometimes money.
HIM was designed for security investigation professionals and based on eight interwoven studies. Security professionals must master these skills because they manage life impacting and deadly incidents. Subsequently, the method below is the easiest and most effective method to grasp the skills. Security use this method besides are provided other knowledge and video clips on HIM because they need to find crime and stop it – protect sites and save lives.
‘Watch and Learn’ , ‘Do – Experience – Embed’
Instructions: Go through the clips once then consider watching each clip for a few days at a time. The user will know which one to watch more than others.
Ask Positive Questions and if you see any negative indicators
– there may be room for concern
The only positive indicators are the head nodding yes, the smile or licking their lips
All the rest of the indicators are negative
Ask Positive Questions in order to See if Reactions contradict
How the lie works – [There is a reason why you will be reviewing a previous video clip now, therefore, do as instructed]
In Malcolm Gladwell’s book “Blink” Power of thinking without thinking M Gladwell (2012), Gottman states that there are four major emotional reactions that are destructive to a relationship: defensiveness, stonewalling, criticism, and contempt.
By going through the research link below one would easily and quickly comprehend how could destroy a relationship or identify the true feelings of how the other person truly feels about another person.
Subsequently, one can identify the true situation using the HIM lie, deception detection and critical situational interviewing paying attention to the 4 indicators.
Search Utah University through the search link by inserting ”the four horsemen”.
The user has access to this link for a period of one year to only the video clips. Repeating the skillset should embed the knowledge so that the user reacts instinctively.
BUT, if the user would like to access the full complement of HIM Tools along with knowledge to uncover crime or issues of concern then by activating the HIM Tool then the user will professionalize themselves.